Lately, I have been craving rich, yummy comfort foods. Especially sweet ones! I’m currently trying to break that habit because my jeans don’t really like it, but man! do I love a good slice of cake or decadent pastry. And my passion for baking has only shown itself more in the past few weeks.
I wanted to share this recipe because is a refreshing take on the typical chocolate cake, but it’s also very moist and indulgent. Kudos go to my daughter, or this recipe would have never been born- so it’s named after her. She requested a chocolate butterfly cake a while back, which I obliged with this recipe. However, her cake was slathered with vanilla buttercream and then decorated with a trillion sprinkles.
After making her cake, I started thinking about ways I could make it again, but in a more sophisticated, simple, and elegant way. I have also been trying to use as many unexpected herbs in my cooking as possible, recently. While chocolate and vanilla are classic flavors (and what my daughter picked), I wanted a twist and ultimately decided to add lavender.
I also made a large batch of lavender lemonade to serve with it. YUM! Which my husband eventually turned into a cocktail with gin and ginger beer. Basically, we’ve been living in a lavender heaven!
In my opinion, this is a wonderful cake to bring to a spring or summer gathering or share with family on a special occasion. However, in my case this was just for fun, and I ended up sharing it with my sister-in-law and family. I was glad they loved it- enough to even enjoy it for breakfast! Haha! ( I apologize for not having more photos!)
If you decide to try this out, I truly hope it brings you as much happiness as I had making it.
3 cups flour
2 cups granulated sugar
1/2 cup cocoa powder
1/2 tsp salt
1 Tbsp baking soda
1 cup buttermilk
1 cup cooking oil (I used coconut)
1/2 cup hot water
1 Tbsp vanilla
1 pkt instant chcolate pudding
1/2 cup sour cream
1/2 cup heavy cream
1 tbsp dried lavender buds
2 1/2 cups powdered sugar
1 tbsp lemon juice
Preheat oven to 350°F. For the Cake, mix all dry ingredients, by hand or in a mixer. In a separate bowl, combine pudding mix, eggs, buttermilk, water, oil and 1 tablespoon vanilla. In large mixer bowl, combine dry ingredients and wet, by slowly pour in the wet ingredients while whisking with electric mixer on low/medium speed for up to 2 minutes. Stir in sour cream. Pour into greased bundt pan.
Bake on 350° for 50-60 minutes. Cool in pan 20-30 minutes. Invert cake onto wire rack or plate. Cool completely.
Meanwhile, for the glaze, Bring cream just to a simmer, stirring occasionally, in a small saucepan over medium. Remove from heat, and stir in dried lavender; let stand 10-15 minutes.
Pour lavender milk through a fine wire-mesh strainer into a bowl, and cool completely, about 20 minutes.
Whisk together powdered sugar, salt, 1/4-1/2 of the lavender milk, and 1 Tbsp. fresh lemon juice. Whisk in up to 2 teaspoons lemon juice, 1 teaspoon at a time, until desired consistency is reached. (However, because I didn’t want the lemony taste to take away from the lavender I ended up adding a little bit of water instead, to thin out the glaze. Don’t add so much water, though, that you dilute the taste or make your glaze so thin it sinks into the cake.)
Sprinkle with dried lavender buds, if desired. Enjoy!
Hopefully you whip this up, post a picture, and tag me on social media @lone_birch.
I’m so excited about today’s post! I have loved essential oils for a few years now, and I’m (finally) taking big time advantage of using them again since we moved into this house. They were in a storage box for far too long!
My Aussie, insta-acquaintance, Sinead (who is AMAZING at essential oil DIYs, by the way) inspired me to do a few projects of my own. After seeing her pretty little posts and projects, I thought I’d come up with some new blends to bottle; for a few different uses.
Now, I admit that I am not an essential oils expert. It’s just something I enjoy and find helpful in my day-to-day. I also understand that what oils and brands people choose to use are highly personal, and sometimes controversial. So, I won’t delve too deeply into a spiel, trying to get you to use what I do.
I will only mention that I’ve been using Eden’s Garden oils forever and I LOVE them. I’ve found them to not only be affordable, but effective. I LOVE that the company doesn’t recruit distributors! They are a family/woman-owned business, and their products are 100% pure. That being said, I encourage you to use WHATEVER oils you are comfortable with. Every boho babe has her own groove!
Today, I’m going to be sharing five easy, oil “recipes” you can start with for these diy projects. But, if you’re familiar with, and love, oils already- feel free to experiment and add to what I’m blending here! I’d love to know about your fave oil blends and creations!!
Here’s what I used for these 5 projects, besides the oils themselves:
Carrier Oil- Carrier oils are very important when it comes to formulating your oils for application to skin. Read this great article from HelloGlow, to find out more! I used this particular “coconut oil” product because it’s specifically formulated for skin + absorption, I’ve been using it for a long time and knew it wouldn’t cause irritation, and it also has percentages of safflower oil, jojoba oil, cotton seed oil, almond oil, argan oil, olive oil, sunflower seed oil, and avocado oil. Holy hydration!!
However, I can no longer find this one in stores or online. Therefore, no link available. But, I encourage you to use whatever you have handy and what works for you! It’s so important that you don’t feel pressured to go out and buy a bunch of fancy, expensive products to do this. Find what’s cost effective and easy to obtain, and what might be the best for your skin type. Not everyone will choose the same combination; that’s what makes it so fun & experimental!
Vessels- Besides the blends themselves, choosing the vessels to put them into might be my favorite part. Sinead uses The Vessel Collection (as do I) because they have all beautiful, glass containers you could want. I went to place an order from them immediately, BUT then I saw the $40 shipping to the USA and knew I’d have to do something different. So, I searched for something I loved, US based, and found these gems from Karma & Cosmo. They are SO GOOD!!
I also have a monthly subscription to Grove Collaborative and received another one of their perfect, spray bottles in my box last month. Similar HERE. Or you could reuse/repurpose a container from home.
Funnels- I reccommend getting funnels for besically any project that requires dumping liquid from one container to another, but especially for small/narrow necked bottles like this. I got a pack from Amazon (linked), a lot of times they come with a bottle when you buy them, or you could probably find them at the dollar store.
If you are (and even if you’re not) new to essential oils, I HIGHLY recommend getting a book like “A Beginner’s Guide To Essential Oils”. It’s a helpful and quick reference to remember what each is helpful for, their uses, and what they blend well with…etc. I use this one regularly to maintain knowledge of what works well for me.
Let’s get down with the blends!
Cloud Nine Room Spray:
Unscrew the top of your glass bottle and add essential oils.
4 drops lemongrass
4 drops clary sage
4 drops patchouli
4 drops pine
Fill the glass halfway with distilled water, then fill the other half with witch hazel. replace the lid and shake the bottle to combine the witch hazel, oil, and water. (If your glass bottle is clear instead of colored, you could also add some dried flowers or greenery to add beauty and also- if desired- show the scent.)
This blend helps to energize, reduce anxiety, support mindfulness and concentration, as well as boost air quality. Perfect for literally any time of day and any room in your home.
*For the roller balls, drop essential oils in, fill the rest of the bottle with carrier oil. Be sure to leave a little space at the top so there is room to drop in any dried flowers and put the roller back on. My rollers here are 7.5ml.
Tranquil Slumber Roller
4 drops lavender
2 drops vetiver
2 drops ylang ylang
2 drops australian sandalwood
This roller recipe is great for treatment of insomnia or sleep disorders, promoting calm & relaxation, and overall easing restlessness. As someone who suffers from insomnia, I LOVE THIS BLEND! And can attest to it’s soothing qualities.
5 drops tangerine
1 drop spearmint
3 drops lemongrass
3 drops lime
This roller is designed to boost mood, refresh, and alleviate the blues! Everyone needs this one in their life. And all my kids even loved how it smelled (not that they need more energy lol). Eucalyptus would’ve been a great addition to this, even replacing the lime. (However, my 2 year old dumped out all I had left before I could make these!!)
Look Lively Roller
3 drops pink pepper
2 drops frankinsence
2 drop bergamot
1 drop rosemary
Loving this roller for those days when you just need a “pep talk” to get you through those late afternoons when you’re so badly craving a nap. Good for invigoration, emotional support, and increase alertness.
*For body spray, add your oils, then one tablespoon of vegetable glycerin, one tablespoon of witch hazel, and fill the rest with distilled water. The perfume bottle I’m using here is 50ml.
Nature’s Child Body Spray
12 drops patchouli
12 drops bergamot
10 drops myrrh
8 drops tangerine jasmine blend (if you don’t have this blend you can use 4 drops of each, separate oil)
8 drops australian sandalwood
6 drops lemon
This is a very subtle scent, but I love it for after the shower. It’s got a sweet, earthiness that’s extremely pleasant and uplifting. It improves feelings of contentment, enhances meditation, intensifies attentiveness, & supports overall well-being. Keep in mind though, it’s a body spray, not a perfume, so the scent does fade with time.
Okay, that it for me. I hope you guys try some of these out, or, as I mentioned, I would love to hear some of your creations you think I should give a whirl!
What comes to mind when you think of the phrase “treat yourself”? Often, what pops in my head are fresh blooms. I love having healthy, happy looking flowers in my house at all times [if possible] and I’ve really missed being able to go to farmer’s markets & shops to get them since COVID ruined everything. Things really haven’t been the same, and I’ve been working so hard around the farm lately (we all have); I just felt like I needed a little pick-me-up. Enter, Farmgirl Flowers.
I have turned to this little San Fran based business time and again to send bouquets to friends and family in the spirit of sympathy, congratulations, and friendship. Those who have received my floral gifts ranted and raved about how much they loved them. But, oddly, I had never placed an order for myself.
During the early stages of the pandemic my inbox was often filled with emails from various companies giving updates on their status. Farmgirl Flowers being among them. I could just tell from Christina‘s emails that her heart and dedication to her team and this small business was off the charts, and it made me want to show my support even more. I knew, I wanted to make a purchase as soon as I was able.
So, (picking back up where I started) with all of the labor I’ve been putting in with the family over the last couple of months and my parent’s impending visit, I wanted to do something nice for myself. Self-care, am I right? That being said, I browsed FF site, and chose their Minimalist arrangement. But, let me be clear- I could’ve chosen them all! I had such a hard time deciding on what to get. However, I settled on the neutral bouquet, knowing it would look good in whatever room I chose to put it in. And, one morning [of my choosing], a pretty box showed up at my door.
I mean… how gorgeous are these flowers?!
Now, let me tell you why Farmgirl is freakin’ amazing, beside just their blossoms. Their goal is to minimize the amount of waste they produce to make the smallest impact on the environment as possible. They properly and ethically source their flowers so that they can offer the highest quality arrangements. Their prices (especially considering the value of what you’re receiving) are reasonable, while making sure they are still able to support flower farmers and small businesses. Plus, being a small business themselves, they work to create local jobs and provide benefits to their employees.
The best news? They ship all over the USA and make sure you get the freshest, flourishing arrangement possible. Not to mention, YOU choose the date of delivery! They provide care tips, answers questions, and even tell you how to get the perfect Instagram photo of your bouquet. I’ve also had personal experience with FF customer service, which I found to be excellent; smooth and very responsive.
I adore arranging flowers, and do it often. And, it’s no surprise that, when I followed the instructions that came with my package, I had an even more stunning array than when it arrived! Why had I waited so long to get these for myself!?!
My arrangement stayed vivacious looking for about a week and the greens, of course, went a little longer. I think I could’ve been a bit more diligent in changing the water, which might’ve made their life extended even a bit more. I appreciated, too, that some of the flowers were closed when they arrived so that, as time passed and some of the others expired, they opened up and revived the festiveness. Overall, the whole experience was lovely.
Needless to say, I am impressed with Farmgirl Flowers, now more than ever. I will definitely be ordering more from them in the future. If you are, in fact, seeking to treat yourself, look no further. Or, perhaps instead, you want to reward or comfort someone you know. Farmgirl Flowers has your back!
What are some of your favorite ways to implement self care? I’d love to know! Leave me a comment and let me know some of your suggestions so I can try them out too!